Do you hear people say things like: 'Thanks, mate'; 'See you later, mate'; 'Hey, mate, would you mind keeping that noise down', and
so on?
So what do you think the rules are for using this term?
To whom do you say it, and in what sort of circumstances?
Do you say it to good friends, or to acquaintances or strangers?
Do you say it when you’re feeling friendly towards someone, or in other situations?
Do you say it in casual conversation, or in formal conversation?
(hint: do your patients call you ‘mate’? Can you call any of them ‘mate’?)
Do you use it when talking both to males and females?
Is there anything in your native language that corresponds to this use of ‘mate’ in Australian English?
You will get different answers to some of the above questions, depending on what particular sort of social or professional situation you are focusing on, and depending on what age group, gender, region (i.e. rural versus urban), level of formal education, and so on, that you have in mind.
Are you able to compare and contrast Australian greetings with those of the society that you grew up in?
Are there notable differences and similarities?
Imagine that a colleague in your home country has just been appointed to a job in Australia. Your colleague has never travelled much to other countries and has little experience of dealing with new cultures, so you are worried about how s/he might cope here. Write your colleague a letter explaining how politeness works in Australian society, and how it differs from the place in which you grew up. Point out the things that s/he might find impolite and difficult to deal with, and give him/her some guidelines on how to talk and behave in a way that will help him/her settle in smoothly.
Of course, ideas about politeness are not uniform across Australian society. Have you noticed that within younger generations (e.g. people under 30) there seem to be groups with very different standards for what is appropriately polite public behaviour? And do you think that there are different rules for politeness according to whether there are only men, only women or a mixture of men and women in the group? …. You might want to take these sorts of things into account when explaining the situation to your colleague!
Reflect on how you will incorporate what you have learnt into your everyday General Practice.